"Here’s my relationship advice in a few words: It will pass. It will get easier. But the fact that it will get easier does not mean that it doesn’t hurt now. And when people try to minimize your pain they’re doing you a disservice. And when you try to minimize your own pain you’re doing yourself a disservice, so don’t do that. You know, the truth is that it hurts because it’s real. And it hurts because it mattered and that’s an important thing to acknowledge to yourself. That doesn’t mean that it won’t end; that it won’t get better, because it will."